When did you first realize you wanted to be a writer? Or what first inspired you to write?

I remember trying to write my first book in 7th grade! But life got in the way, although I continued to be an avid reader into my adult life. The writing bug bit me once again when I came out of the spiritual closet in 2016. I was inspired then to share my story of resilience and overcoming multiple severe traumas with the public.

What do you think makes a good story?

When the writer invokes the narrative honoring their vision while others can also visualize and empathize with it as if they understand the story as they’ve experienced it themselves.

What inspired your story?

I was inspired by my need to practice what I preach as a facilitator at Self-ishlifestyle.com I am like a broken record in repeating the mantra of SELF-accountability, responsibility, and awareness. The need for championing trauma survivors who are living on survival mode and encouraging them to survive rather than just thrive. Indestructible: The Hidden Gifts of Trauma encourages and teaches individuals to use their personal power to live their best life in all levels--mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

What was one of the most surprising things you learned in creating your book?

It was the most therapeutic experience. I laughed, cried, angered, and certainly squirmed in re-living the past but it healed me and allowed me to gain an objective perspective to extract life healing lessons to share with the community.

What was your greatest challenge in writing this book?

Finishing it!

Who are some of your favorite authors?

Lee Child, Nora Roberts, David Baldacci, Emily Griffin, Harlan Coben

If your book was turned into a movie, who would you like to play the main characters?

My hope and wish is for Indestructible to become a film so that it may help Asian representation in the entertainment industry just like Crazy Rich Asians. Jon Jon Briones would play my father definitely. I would love Gemma Chan to play me as an adult and Lana Condor as my child self. Awkafina as Toni, and I honestly don’t know for my mother and brothers.

What’s the best writing advice you have ever received?

Your first draft is your vomit draft, so vomit away and don’t let perfectionism get in the way of finishing your first draft.